Profile of Ummu Kultsum
Her name was Umm Kultsum bint Abu Bakr ash-Shiddiq al-Qurasyiyah at-Taimiyah. His mother was named Habibah bint Kharijah. Sister of Zaid bin Kharijah.
Umm Kultsum bint Abu Bakr was not a friend. Because he was born after the death of the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam. Concerning his mother, when Abu Bakr was ill near his death, he said to ‘A’ishah, “I am sure the baby that Kharijah’s daughter is carrying is a baby girl.” Umm Kultsum was born after her father, Abu Bakr, died. And what Abu Bakr said, including the karomah he had.
Then Umm Kultsum was married by Thalhah bin Ubaidillah. From this couple were born children named Zakariya and Yusuf. But Joseph died when he was a child.
With Aisyah
Narrated from Nafi ‘, Salim ibn Abdullah ibn Umar reported that Ummul Mukminin Aisyah sent it to her sister, Umm Kultsum bint Abu Bakr. She said, “Breastfeed him ten times so that he can come freely to see me.” Salim said, “Then Ummu Kultsum breastfed me three times. After that he got sick. So as not to breastfeed me more than three times. I also could not be free to go to see Aisyah because Ummu Kultsum did not even breastfeed me ten times. “
With Thalhah bin Ubaidillah
It is narrated that Thalhah bin Ubaidillah brought a lot of wealth from Hadramaut. He brought 100,000 Dinars. At night he slept in a state of confusion. His wife said, “Abu Muhammad, since yesterday I saw you so anxious. Is there something you don’t like about me “? Thalhah said, “You are the best wife. There isn’t. Since last night I have been thinking and saying to myself, ‘What does a person think of his Rabb. This property stays with him in his house. ”
His wife said, “Which morality is your special feature”? “What’s that”? Thalhah asked. His wife said, “Tomorrow morning, ask for a container. Then distribute the property to the houses of the Muhajirin and Anshar according to their position. “
Thalhah said to his wife, “May God love you. I really know that you are really a woman who got taufik daughter from a man who got taufik. ” That is Umm Kultsum bint Abu Bakr ash-Shiddiq.
When morning came, the two asked the maid to bring the container. Then the two of them divided the wealth between the Muhajirin and the Ansar.
With Daughter
Musa ibn Thalhah said, “A’ishah bint Thalhah said to her mother, Umm Kultsum bint Abu Bakr, ‘My father is better than your father, O mother’. Then Ummul Mukminin Aisyah replied, ‘Would you like me to be the mediator among you? Indeed Abu Bakr met the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa salla. Then the Messenger of Allah said, ‘Abu Bakr, you are the one whom Allah freed from hell’. From then on Abu Bakr was also nicknamed ‘Atiq. Then Thalhah came to see the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam. The Prophet said, ‘Thalhah, you are among those who fall in the way of Allah’. “
Rejecting the Application of Umar bin al-Khattab
It is narrated that Umar bin al-Khattab proposed to Ummul Kultsum bint Abu Bakr. He submitted the application through Aisyah, the older sister who was entrusted by her father to take care of her little sister. At that time, Ummu Kultsum was still like that. Knowing Umar proposed to him, he refused. Because age is too far to have a different world.
She told this to Amr bin al-Ash. Amr said, “I am enough as your representative.” Then Amr met Umar. He said, “Commander of the Faithful, I heard you are planning to get married”? “Yes,” replied Umar. “Marry who”? Amr asked again. “Umm Kultsum bint Abu Bakr.” Umar replied.
Amr said, “Commander of the Faithful, she is a woman who is still very young. He can argue with you every day. ” Umar said, “A’ishah who ordered you to say this”?
Then Thalhah bin Ubaidllah married Umm Kultsum. Ali said to Thalhah, “Will you allow me to approach the mosquito net (in which there is Umm Kultsum)”? “Yes,” replied Thalhah. Then Ali said to Umm Kultsum, “This one, you have married a young man from the companions of the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam.”
Narrating Hadith
From Umm Kultsum bint Abu Bakr, she said that ‘A’ishah told her, “The Prophet sallallaahu’ alaihi wa sallam once went out one night. Until late at night. Until the people in the mosque fall asleep. Then he went out and prayed. He said, ‘This is the time. If it does not burden my people ‘. “
From Umm Kultsum bint Abu Bakr, from Aisha that the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam taught her a prayer:
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ مِنَ الْخَيْرِ كُلِّهِ عَاجِلِهِ وَآجِلِهِ مَا عَلِمْتُ مِنْهُ وَمَا لَمْ أَعْلَمْ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنَ الشَّرِّ كُلِّهِ عَاجِلِهِ وَآجِلِهِ مَا عَلِمْتُ مِنْهُ وَمَا لَمْ أَعْلَمْ اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ خَيْرِ مَا سَأَلَكَ عَبْدُكَ وَنَبِيُّكَ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا عَاذَ بِهِ عَبْدُكَ وَنَبِيُّكَ اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ الْجَنَّةَ وَمَا قَرَّبَ إِلَيْهَا مِنْ قَوْلٍ أَوْ عَمَلٍ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنَ النَّارِ وَمَا قَرَّبَ إِلَيْهَا مِنْ قَوْلٍ أَوْ عَمَلٍ وَأَسْأَلُكَ أَنْ تَجْعَلَ كُلَّ قَضَاءٍ قَضَيْتَهُ لِي خَيْرًا
“Oh God, I beg me for all the good that is hastened and delayed. What I know or don’t know. I seek refuge in You from all evils, whether hastened or delayed, which I know and which I do not know. O Allah, verily I beseech You from the goodness of what is requested by Your servant and Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alai wa sallam to You and I seek refuge in You from what is sought for protection by Your servant and prophet. O God, I beseech You for heaven and what brings you closer to it both in words and deeds. And I seek refuge in You from hell and what draws near to it either in speech or deed. And I beseech You all the destinies that You have determined are good for me. ” (HR. Ahmad in Musnad, 24498. Ibn Majah in his Sunan)